Wednesday, June 04, 2014

Checking boxes Fall and Winter 2014

This might seem a strangely timed post--since we just got back from a big trip and you are expecting to see a post about that with pictures.  But look here--this is something I started to write back in February maybe, and forgot all about.  

Our second year of homeschooling highschool started in September, sort of, we usually have a slow breaking in period.  "School" consists of checking off the boxes I think we need to put things on a highschool transcript.  In other words, my homeschool mom anxiety about getting these kids into college is driving the agenda. Now, more than halfway through the year, I am dealing with my extreme discomfort in doing that--but more on that later.

So, after a summer of math a couple of times a week, we set off on our 10th grade work.  And it is work.

Teaching Textbooks Algebra II
Rosetta Stone Italian--re-started with a new focus to work on it throughout the week and see if they actually gain any actual Italian language skills this time.
Derrik Owens Physical Science
SCOOP (secular coop) High School Writing

Katie
Still writing every day, sketching sometimes, Girl Scouts

Zack
Parkour and D&D

Teen group Fridays, Co-op Thursdays, Park Day Tuesdays, when they happen and we feel like going

And the white board--all the work that needs to be checked off every week so mom doesn't have to nag as much as last year.

That's a lot of work and a lot of driving and not a lot of fun.
Now I don't think everything needs to be a bundle of laughs and my kids are far from despairing, but doing something hard and time consuming that you have no interest in and not having time to do things you are interested in is not exactly why we got into this homeschooling thing.
The kids had extremely little input into this line up.  That's not what I dreamed of either.

But off we went. Grinding our way forward. And it really hasn't been awful.  Just not interesting, engaging or done at all together, most of it being done on the computer.

Oh, and they took the PSATs in October.

Pete and I had a long discussion about this and it's a hard one to have.  I've de-schooled a lot more than he has, but we both still grew up with the grade school-middle school-high school-college path and expectation.  It's hard to break.  It's hard to give u checking off the things we think they need to get into college.  But now they are 16 and thinking of their own futures.  Sometimes with anticipation, sometimes with dread and a lot of other emotions depending on the day.  And I think how much better it will be to give them a chance to figure it out while they're still living here, bills paid, pressure fairly low, than doing it during the college years like I did. 

So--what does that look like?  I have no idea.  But I don't think it looks like this year did. 






Monday, February 10, 2014

Summertime 2013

Wow, never got around to editing this one, and now we've taken our winter get-away trip!  SO-just to get this out there, quick captions will have to do.

First--let's acknowledge that back in springtime, the  kids turned 15. And now--

Think back, if you can, to those carefree, warm days of summer 2013.......

Brooklyn--Grimaldi's pizza.  Terrific brick fired pizza.  Long hot wait outside, long wait for food inside.  Soooooo worth the wait!

Nice NYC trip for Pete's birthday.  We were supposed to travel via Bolt Bus, but when we got to Union Station I realized I had booked the trip in reverse--WHAT?! Good thing we had parked the car at the station.  Sudden change of plan and we drove. Bolt was kind enough to refund us the return trip but no go on the departure leg.  Better than nothing, which is their stated policy.  Hit the high line, Chelsea Market, Zabars (I think we hit it on this trip), Economy Candy (natch).  And some other fun stuff, below.


A bit bored on the high line.

Hawk having lunch in Central Park

Our fabulous waiter at Bossa Nova Brunch at SOBs


California for VidCon2013. Also took a side trip to San Diego. Went to the Wild Animal Park (it might be called something else now) and Old Town San Diego--where I bought more marbles at that little place I like there.

Monitor lizard at Wild Animal Park

Me and my new best friend

Observation tower.  K&Z are not impressed

Rhino!

The lions were sleeping right up against the glass.   Had never seen lions so close.

Lady Bug Mini!

At the Getty Center--wonderful Garden

Garden at the Getty

Rebar tree

Garden at the Getty

VidCon2013.  Lots of standing in line trying to get autographs.  The sessions were not as interesting to the kids, but they did attend some.  Wish they had attended more of the evening concerts.  LOTS of teens--more than had ever attending.  Esp teen girls.

Hank and John Green--the VlogBrothers

Shark Week Celebration--Zack got on TV!

Zack and Mythbuster Tory Belleci--Z was first in line.

Hank and John

Katie ready to hit the trade show floor

Art encouraged

Katie with two YouTube personalities whose names I've forgotten, but if you were btw 12-16, you would be impressed!
Ofcourse we lots of other great things over the summer, including the 4th of July with the Marts, the Folk Life Festival, a trip to see g'ma Jeanette in NC, a GS camping trip, friends, food and fun times....but who can remember all the details now in February? I do know that the summer went by far too quickly and we can't wait for it to return.


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Wednesday, June 26, 2013

The Hard Stuff--Grief

“I thought I could describe a state; make a map of sorrow. Sorrow, however, turns out to be not a state but a process. It needs not a map but a history...” 
C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed


My first draft of this post was very enlightened and sweeping and had great advice on living through grief.  And some--or maybe even a lot--of it will end up in the final draft but first...

Sorrow, hurt and pain suck.  Grief is hard. That's what I think.  It is never fun to go through.  Sometimes it physically hurts.  It can be paralyzing.  It has a horrible sense of uniqueness to it that makes me feel like there's no one who will understand.  There is a sense of weakness about it, a sense that I am letting it go on too long or too strong.  That no one else takes so long to get over things. That everyone is sick to death of hearing about it.  I get sick of hearing myself.

In my typical fashion, I went it alone.  Then I got lonely.  Then I got angry.  Then I actually was alone.  Almost irrevocably.

There are better ways to walk through sorrow. 
But it will never be easy.  When things don't turn out like I wanted, let alone how I expected, it hurts.  It's hard. 
And it never lasts.

Been reading a great book lately--Unattended Sorrow and it has been a huge help.  Completely counter-intuitive for me.  It suggests letting sorrow take as much space in my body and psyche as it wants.  Not to turn it away, ignore it or bottle it up.

This may be obvious to you, but it's not how I naturally operate.  It was unexpected to find that there was plenty of room for it.  There were also tears for it, nausea for a little while and, typical for me, a desire to shut all the feelings down (read Fear).  I didn't realize how much was there and that it is about more than the death of loved ones (most recently, my dad in 2009).  Because I never willingly gave grief any space all the disappointments, hard times and hurts of my life were waiting to latch onto any new grief.  All waiting for some space.

So I gave it space and here I am.  Still alive and not so sad.  Able to do the things I need to do and some of the things I like to do and even some new things.

This grief is giving me the space I didn't give it for so long and it is being kinder to me.  It's not coming out all sideways.  It's not hanging around in the wee hours waiting to make me feel miserable.  It's simply there.  Ready for me when I'm ready for it.  Most of the time.  I have to admit, that places, songs, scents can all put me back in touch with my sorrow whether I'd like to right then or not.  But now I try to give it a moment.  It turns out that a little nod, a breath and a bit of stillness is all it needs, then I get to go on about my business.

I'm not terrific at giving grief space yet.  It sneaked up on me just yesterday and I ignored it.  Old habits are hard to break. When I talked about it this morning, it was almost an afterthought to the conversation.  I almost forgot to say something--but as soon as I did I could feel my throat constrict and my nose itch.  Still, I kept the conversation going and didn't take that pause.  Why is that?  I knew I was upset, I knew I was having feelings.  Why not give myself a moment to experience them?

Because I think they will take up too much space.  That it's a bottomless pit.  This time--I won't ever stop feeling sad. Yes. But also it's my strong desire to keep control over everything.  Grief doesn't walk a predictable path and I find that unnerving and frightening.  I don't ride roller coasters because I don't like the feeling of gravity pulling me down and in a similar way, I don't like be jerked around by my emotions and I fight it.  I'm learning that it's a losing battle and the harder I fight it, the more casualties there are.

So today I'll give grief (or sorrow or disappointment or fear) its moment of grace.  So far it hasn't gone on forever and it hasn't killed me.  My life is flowing more and has lost that stuck feeling. I've even been a bit happier.


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Monday, June 03, 2013

The Hard Stuff--Marriage

Life happens on life's terms.  I'm not always happy with this.  I prefer life on my terms, but it simply isn't set up that way.

About Marriage (or whatever you get to/want to call your long-term relationship)

It is hard work.  At least, mine is and I think it is worth the work, but it isn't always fun or easy or intuitive.  It certainly doesn't play itself out in 1-3 hours like on TV or in the movies or even in books. Resolutions don't come neatly and in Prime Time.

It's snot-nosed crying, yelling, laughing when you didn't expect to, saying stuff you don't mean and going to bed angry, or bewildered or dissatisfied.  It is sometimes saying exactly what's going on in my head--even if I don't understand it or feel I have the "right" words for it.  And sometimes it's saving what's in my head for later, or never, or just to say out loud to a close friend and see if it still makes sense or is important.  Sometimes, I say exactly what I need to say and there isn't anyone interested in listening.

Marriage is out there in a world of people who are as screwed up as I am or more screwed up.  Sometimes people have no skills and I have to be one to put on the big girl shoes and get on with the business of standing up for what I need or speaking the truth or healing.  Sometimes, maybe more often, I need someone else to be the responsible adult.  Sometimes people get all up inside your marriage and you have to figure out how to get them out. Sometimes you have to seek out people who can step in and help.

Feelings get hurt.  There are scenes made.  There are betrayals. Mistakes get made and there are consequences. There are times when there is no good answer and you have to live with doing the best you can and doing better if you ever figure out what that is.  Often, apologies are not enough.

In my experience, it takes all the confusing, hard, weepy work to get the good stuff of marriage.  And there is plenty of good.  But people are a messy business and a big responsibility and sometimes we are more up to the task than other times.  I've also found that hard times give way to good times and good times fade to challenges and around again.

Why do the work? Why put your heart on the line? There's laughter, passion, intimacy, camaraderie, security and serenity.  Looks across the room, memories, winks and smiles.  A best friend, a shared history, shared growth and a collection of private sweet little moments.

Marriage endures in the grey areas, not the extremes.  It's not about happily ever after on one side and divorce on the other. It's not about rash decisions or easy fixes or instant gratification (most of the time).  It's about walking through all the moments one at a time with no guarantees. It's about taking the happiness as it comes and the hard times as they come too. It's about living with someone, a day at a time, as long as it lasts. It is never forever.

Life. Love. It's worth it--hang in there.




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Sunday, March 31, 2013

The New Year in High School

Lots on the schedule this year.  High School is in full swing.  But before we hit our full stride we took a long weekend to get some sun in FL.  I decided a couple of years ago that I'd reached the point in my life where I need to get some summer during the winter.

Pete didn't have much time and we didn't want to waste money and time getting to Cali, so he suggested the Keys.  The airfare to FL always seems to be cheap, so the Keys it was.

The best thing we did was to follow Pete's whim that we stop on the drive from Miami to Key Largo at Everglades National Park.  As always at the Nat'l Parks, we wanted more time, but it was still a great day.




The "resort" we stayed in at Key Largo was fine, but really phoney.  They had created a beach-like area, but the actual piece of real beach they had was some sort of concrete covered in sand.  But the views were great, from the fake beach and from our room and we were able to rent stand up paddle boards on site--absolutely the best part of the trip for me.

**note**

Completely forgot that I had stared this post and thought it had been published long ago!  Now we have to rely on my sketchy memory--oh no!

OK, so maybe the next day we went to the glass bottom boat.  We had hoped to snorkle but it was very windy for the whole trip so strong swimmers only and Katie and Pete are not that strong in swimming.  But Katie needed to get out to the coral reef--she loves that stuff, so the glass bottom boat was the only option.  Again, Pete saved the day buying enough dramamine for us.  3-5 foot swells in a flat bottomed boat is a nauseating combination.  Katie and I had to go up for air a couple of times but then got used to it.


We stop for Rhinos!
The last full day we went out to Key West, which was about what I expected except for the Super Bowl wrinkle.  I check the guide books to be sure that the town didn't shut down on a Sunday but didn't realize that on Superbowl Sunday, everything closes by 1pm!  Lots of places had ticketed events to watch the game, but getting lunch was a major undertaking.

There was a cool fort and interesting beach but it was a very long walk and then lunch turned into a death march through town!  If you ever go--grab bikes or scooters the minute you get there and you'll have a much better time than we did.  Still--the pay off was a pretty fine panini shop and ice cream bigger than your head after.

And--then there was the sunset:





Greatest find by far was Harriette's which we ate at every morning for breakfast and the most amazing biscuits--and the muffins were to die for.

Now whenever we go out to breakfast we mourn Harriette's.





Last day we headed to Miami for our flight, but got there very early and hung out at the beach for a while.  It was very funny to see a school group go by.  We were dressed in light summer clothes.  The FL kids were bundled up in sweaters and hoodies and looked very put out that they were expected to be outside in the winter. 

If we ever go back, we decided that Key Biscayne was a better choice for us, for its proximity to Miami and Biscayne NP, which we didn't have time to hit. There's always next year.  The sun did us all good.

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Wednesday, January 02, 2013

2012 Recap

So for anyone who wonders what the heck we do while I'm not keeping up with the blog at all, here are the highlights that I can recall, or remembered to either put on the calendar or actually in the blog.

January
Pete and I continued to work in the nursery at our church UUCA, while Katie and Zack took the OWL class.  The OWL class was the main reason I originally chose UUCA over the other two UU churches in the area and it did turn out to be a very good experience for them.  It is a comprehensive sex education class, starting in 2nd grade then again in 5th and 8th grade.  The 8th grade OWL covers IT ALL.  Parents are not permitted and ANY questions can be asked and will be answered honestly by the adult conductors.

At the end of the month we went to Orlando to see the Harry Potter section of Universal (along with the rest of the park) and I couldn't help spending a couple of days at Disney as well.  The kids took one of the Disney classes and really enjoyed it.  WWOHP was wonderful but we didn't love the rest of the resort much.


At Hogwarts

February
Started with the end of our trip to Orlando and then spent a week with mom in NC.  We had only spent a night there on the way down to FL, so wanted to spend a bit more on the way back up.  A fun time and good to relax a bit before the long drive home again.

The rest of the month was spent with our usual activities.  Katie and Pete went to the sweetheart dance again and had a fun time.


Sweet Hearts

March
Zack tried doing the Ancestral Knowledge program, kind of like Scouting without all the military nonsense and tons of time outside.  He liked it, but ultimately decided it was "not his thing."

Then, my big deal was the VaHomeschoolers Conference, which I headed up.  I didn't have to do much at the actual conference due to the amazing team of leaders who stepped up to do all the jobs on site.  Also, Katie and Zack qualified to be teen volunteers this year and had a great time--except that Zack became very ill overnight and spent the main day in bed at the hotel. :(

I'm heading up the 2013 conference again this March, and then I'll be retiring and look forward to actually attending the conference and catching some sessions.

Come join us this year--registration will be open in a few days!



Not sure when exactly our robin moved in, but didn't have a picture for this month.  Maybe it was March..

April
End of the World homeschool dance--both kids with new outfits and meeting a ton of friends, but poor Zack kept up his sick streak during all fun activities by getting very ill at the dance and he called it a night fairly early. :(

Pete and I also called off the regular search for a new house while we got Hershey Lane ready to sell.  It was a good plan, but turned out to be hard to stick to.

I was on Car Talk!  I got all in a tizzy once I was talking to them, and forgot to make my noise at the start of my story, but it was really fun and even more lucky when I found out that this is their last season. But who can compete with the goat lady, I ask you?


Taking a moment at the dance

May
Pete was supposed to have his sinus surgery this month but had to re-schedule at the very last minute to work out annoying insurance details.

A visit from my mom for Mothers Day.  A nice brunch and to Arena Stage to see The Music Man.  Everyone enjoyed the show, but Katie had the extra thrill of seeing the actor who played Gaston in the B'way Beauty and the Beast play Harold Hill.

Katie had a Girl Scout camp out and Kate and Zack turned 14, if you can believe it!

We also said goodbye to my trusty Subaru :'(  It was my ticket to radio fame on Car Talk, but the guys convinced me that things weren't going to get better and it was time to move on.  We test drove a few cars to be sure that I could see over the dash and Pete didn't bang his head on the roof and went for the Hyundai Elantra Touring.  Love It.




Mother's Day

June
A mellow beginning to summer.  A nice visit with Uncle Fuad and Sandie who came in to visit Pete's cousin Melissa.  We really don't get to see them enough!

Zack was invited to a beach trip with a friend and despite my poor travel planning, we got him to the meeting point in enough time to catch a ride.  It was a bit churchy for him, (it was his friend's church youth group) but they did have a good time at the beach.

Meanwhile, Katie and I went to see her friends perform in truly the longest version of Beauty and the Beast I've ever seen.  All the kid performers did very well though, just not great direction from whoever ran the show. A more talented director would have shown off the children's talents much more. (and maybe cut a good 45 mins off the 3 hour show!)

Katie and Zack enjoyed separate birthday parties this year.  They all had a great time, but I'm not sure I'm up for two parties in two weeks again.

We also got to see Phil V who was in DC on business.  We had breakfast together, headed to a comics store and then Katie and I peeled off to join her GS troop at the 100 Anniversary sing along on the Nat'l Mall.  Pete and Zack got to hang with Phil a bit longer before he had to re-join his colleagues. 


The last week of June was spent in NC with mom.  It was the only week of the summer we could get away and it was nice to have a good chunk of time to do things around Sunset Beach.  The kids went to the "upside down house" a new attraction at Broadway on the Beach.  It wasn't what they expected, but they still had fun and it was a nice way to spend a chilly, rainy day.  I think this was the trip we went down to Myrle Beach to see the new boardwalk.  Pretty disappointing for mom and me, who think of Coney Island when we think of a boardwalk, but Katie and Zack enjoyed the arcades--and the soft serve! (Thanks Grandma!)


Muddy

July
Spent the 4th of July with the Marts!  A great tradition we haven't been able to participate in  for the past few years.  Very nice to see their new extended house and hang with them and the Ebbins.

We spent the night in York, PA and headed to NYC the next day for a short visit which we piggybacked on a show Pete's band was playing.  We hit a lot of our favorite spots on the lower east side but also took the kids to the Cloisters for the first time and learned from my friend Allison that we should check out the High Line in Chelsea.  We weren't able to meet up with Allison and her family this trip, but were able to meet with Ivanna for lunch on the high line and browsing at the Chelsea market.  It was a poundingly hot day in NYC, and I knew Ivanna would never have ventured out on a day like that if it hadn't been for us!  The High Line was quite breezy though and Chelsea mkt was pleasantly AIR CONDITIONED!

We also visited and cried at the 9/11 Memorial and visited Coney Island.

Back home and Katie started her three week stint working at her old preschool to help out with their camp.

Zack spent a week later in the summer at Parkour camp and loved it.  We need to find more of that for him but it has been difficult.

Mom stopped in between camp stints on her way up to LI to spend time with Phil's family.  So, just by chance, she was with us when we came to check out the house we ended up buying.  I say that we bought this house by accident, because we had suspended our search.  I suggested we look at it because I had been intrigued with the layout, but was sure that Pete wouldn't like it at all.  Turns out we all loved it and the wheels began to turn for our move in August!


On the way to the Cloisters

August
August was all about getting our bid in on our new place, getting the financing in order, packing to move and getting the old place ready to sell.  Mom was a huge help on her way back down from LI before heading home.  She got us packing and organized, keeping Kate and Zack busy, while I organized other areas of the house.

We got rid a of lot of stuff and still had plenty more stuff to pack.

We closed on 8/20 and as most everyone knows who knows me, I broke my ankle right before closing.  We moved the next day while Pete came to the rescue by taking a day off to help run things and Jeannie helped by getting me to the Dr to get x-rays.

The end of the month we joined Pete's folks at the Cape for some time at the beach.  Sadly one day was rainy but still very relaxing and it was a spot that Pete grew up vacationing at and he was really happy that the kids got to spend some time there.

Bye Bye Hershey Lane


September
I actually updated the blog with some not back to school stuff, so won't re-write here, but the summer definitely went too fast and it was time to get back to work.  Studies for the kids and unpacking and work on the old place for Pete and me.

Mom once again came in to save the day to help us unpack while I limped around and Pete recovered from his re-scheduled sinus surgery. Pete fared very well through the surgery, but has unfortunately had a problem shaking a sinus staph infection, but at least now it can be treated.  

We did get a lot done and Katie and Zack were tops in helping with EVERYTHING.  They cleaned out stuff they no longer wanted, packed up their own rooms, unpacked their new rooms.  They mowed lawns at both houses, spend hours hanging around the old place, painting and cooling their heels while I got other things done, and spent way more time at Home Depot than should ever be expected of teenagers.  They were (and are) fantastic.

September 10, Katie at long last, got her braces off!

Phil and Carrie stopped in to see our new place while they were visiting in the DC area--we didn't take any pictures, so you'll just have to take my word for it, but next time they need to make a longer visit!

K&Z also began to attend Youth Group at UUCA.  I was a bit stunned that they wanted to try it but they were looking forward to the overnight and had a great time.  There was some drama associated with the advisers, but we stayed fairly clear of it and now (in Jan) things seem to be more underway and more fun, so I hope they will stick with it.


Bye to the old measuring wall :(

October
We were actually home for the whole month!  Spent lots of time over at the old place fixing things up. K, Z and I painted all the closets--you really don't notice how banged up they get when all your clothes are still inside. The open house was on 10/14, I think and we got two offers right off of that.  The buyers were terrific and didn't ask us to do much, so the extra fixes after their inspection were pretty minimal.

The kids were mostly wrapped up with Halloween activities.  Pete was doing a lot more drumming at UUCA.



November
Pete had uber amazing tickets to see The Who, with seats right up front and the ability to see the sound check.  He was in heaven and I was glad he treated himself for something that there probably won't be a chance to do again.

The house sold! Yeah!  After all the cleaning, fixing, upkeep and back and forthing to the old place we were not especially sentimental about leaving Hershey Lane for the last time.  We took the kids out to Ping Pong Dim Sum to celebrate and got them some special gifts to thank them for all the help and lack of complaining while doing it.

We had a nice long visit in NC to celebrate mom's birthday and then Thanksgiving.  Pete flew in for Thanksgiving and to stay the weekend after and my cousin Jayne and her husband Donald also came in from their place in Asheville to spend the holiday.  It was great to catch up with them and they had not seen Katie and Zack for a very long time.







December
It was an eerily calm December this year except kind of a quick turn around getting back in town from Thanksgiving and heading out to Great Wolf Lodge.  A homeschool group arranges for an amazing discount and any size room costs the same as any other, so sharing a big suite is easy and even more economical.  I knew there would be a big pack of boys there, but not many girls, so Katie's BFF joined us as well.

Then pretty mellow, due to almost exclusively online shopping for the holidays.

We had people over to warm the house and the following weekend, mom arrived to help with the last of the Christmas prep and we had a lovely Christmas.

Pete's parents were able to join us on 12/28 and stayed for New Years.


And so here we are at 2013.  Whew--that was fast!

In the coming year, may you enjoy side-splitting laughs, smiles that make your cheeks hurt and surprises that make you shoot milk out your nose.

Much love
--Liz













Sunday, September 23, 2012

Not Back to School--still

I felt it building when 7th grade loomed and the questions started in earnest in 8th grade--"Are you going to keep homeschooling through highschool?"  There was an article about this circulating around FB recently.  I don't mind the question, since a lot of people we know don't homeschool and  have been fine with the fact that we do.

I do find it a bit funny sometimes, because it sounds like I'm the one who's going to highschool.  No thanks!  Once was enough. I also find it funny because I'm asked as though it's 100% my  decision.

Maybe they share the same anxiety I have about teaching highschool?  I'd hate to have to teach highschoolers.  Good thing I informed my kids long ago that I have no intention of teaching highschool.  And what that looks like is lots of things happening outside our home.  We've always road and field-trip schooled, so this is not a huge shift, but it does seem to entail a lot more driving around.  I don't know, maybe it just seems like more because these activities for older kids don't need me to do much--drop and go for a good many.  But that's not always practical since I also need to pick back up.  So I hang around with not much to do--especially if there's no wifi--The Horror!  I'm lucky in that I like most of my kids' friends' parents.  But it's even harder now to get any kind of housework or yard work done.  It's also been complicated by the fact that so much else has been going on around here that routine has been hard to come by.

In case you haven't kept up with our current events, the end of our summer looked like this:
  • Went to take a look at the layout of a house in a neighborhood we'd been looking in.
  • Liked the house so much we decided to put in a bid but had to close quickly to get a good price and because I was going to leave town the last week in August
  • Spent the next three weeks running around trying to get mortgage info together and to get anything we could get done on the old house and packing
  • On pins and needles for a week wondering if the funding would come through
  • Mortgage set, closing date set
  • Do final walk through the morning of closing--Liz breaks ankle while checking caulking in the jetted tub
  • Wrap up ankle and go to closing, then to doctor, then for x-rays
  • Next day--movers arrive at 9am, get a call that new x-rays are needed, Jeannie to the rescue to take Liz for more x-rays
  • Next day--Liz off to orthopedics to get giant boot--gives up any hope of heading out of town
  • September arrives--we go to the not back to school potluck with no intention of  starting the school year yet.
  • Next week--Pete has planned sinus surgery
  • Liz's mom arrives to save the day-unpacking, cleaning and laundry-doing ensues.
  • Sept 10--Katie gets her braces off!
  • Sept 19 Liz's mom returns to her own calm, much less work involved life
  • Continued cleaning, repairs and work on the old house to get ready to sell it and unpacking the new house
And now we've gotten a bit into the fall groove.

For those interested, Katie and Zack are taking
Marine Biology from the Smithsonian
Katie has two once a month book clubs
Katie will do Girl Scouts again, which is now conveniently right across the street
There's a free digital movie making class from Microsoft that one co-op is doing
We joined the secular co-op (scoop) where they take yoga and zoology
Then there's Teaching Textbooks Algebra I and Rosetta Stone Italian and, if I ever get my act together, Bravewriter Highschool writing.
Plus teen group and park day and possibly parkcour for Zack in the winter.
And Doctor Who

Pete is still recovering from sinus surgery and is enjoying breathing easier, but not enjoying continued headaches.

I was driving myself insane booking speakers for the VaHomeschoolers Conference and also coordinating the conference itself, but then I regained my senses and got more help.  It's going to be a great conference, you should come.

The old house is about ready to get on the market--cross everything you have that it will sell quickly!

Hope you are enjoying the cooler fall weather.  I am enjoying the bright blue sky I can see through my uncurtained windows.


Our next adventure--furniture and rugs--and selling the old house.


:)

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Readers Digest version life from Sept 2011-Feb 2012

According to the calendar and my bad memory, this is what went on:

Sept 2011
  • The new school year activities
  • Algebra I with Teaching Textbooks
  • Zack taking sword fighting
  • Katie starting Girl Scouts
  • A co-op to focus on unit studies, a different one about every six weeks
  • A teen group, mostly socializing
  • Katie continues with Art Class

Pete is still working at the Census and traveling a bit for work.

Park Day is still on the calendar, but we don't go very often.


Oct
  • Same as Sept, but added skating some weeks.
  • We did a corn Maize, which the kids rolled their eyes about but then ended up having a good time. There was a giant bounce floor that we all had fun on but got me kinda sea sick after a while.
  • Kids and I went to see a butterfly exhibit at the Smithsonian
  • Katie's best friend stayed with us for about a week and a half and it was fun having three kids around, considering they all got along pretty well.
  • Halloween!  Our neighborhood isn't very good for Halloween, so Katie made plans to spend the night with a friend and Zack, Pete and I went over to JM's.  We got there pretty late but Zack and his pal went around to get candy.  I think this may be the last year for it.  Maybe a party next year.
Halloween

Butterflies

More butterflies



 Nov

The teens went to Cox Farm's fall festival.  Here are K&Z being king of the haystack:

 




(it's possible this was Oct...)

Just before Thanksgiving the kids and I went to MIT Splash with friends.  They had a great time, but Zack ended up sick after the first day, so skipped class the next morning.  Zack's been having some hard luck traveling lately but we're hoping things will get better.

Then Thanksgiving with G&G Nuwayser.

Dec
Fairly typical month and a low-key Christmas.  Grandma came in for the holiday and headed out to LI the next day.

Jan
Our typical watch TV New Years Eve with mom and the kids.

All through these months, I was planning, planning, planning for the VaHomeschoolers Conference being made to look very good by the team of volunteers working in all the leadership roles.

And that was the end of the year and start to 2012, in which I hoped I would be better about keeping up with the blog, but so far, not so much.


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Universal/Disney

So--think back to that almost winter we had back in late Jan/early Feb.  After winter 2011, I decided that I really liked getting away to someplace warm in winter time.  Didn't know if my mom was going to go back to FL in 2012, but just in case, I started brewing the idea that we would work in a trip to see Harry Potter at Universal if we did go down that way.

Well...by the time mom decided not to go, I was enjoying the idea of harry too much and we decided to go down anyway--but only to Universal.

Well...then I looked at the calendar and realized that we were heading down to Orlando during Disney's homeschool days and that the kids could take a class while we were there!  I couldn't say no to Disney at open class enrollment but I did spare Pete the Disney experience.

Started with a stop off at mom's for a brief visit and drop off Toby.

DISNEY

Pre-visit
We had to pick up our tickets so we could do early entry the next day so I booked dinner at Wilderness Lodge.  We had a fun time at the restaurant then caught a ferry over to the Magic Kingdom to pick up our tickets.  The kids decided we'd go back to the room, rather than watch the fireworks from the gates, but instead we got a great view of the show from the ferry back to the lodge!  It was a really nice way to get into the Disney mood of the trip.

First day, Magic Kingdom! 


 I was extremely brave and rode both Splash Mountain and Space Mtn.  Would have gone on the 3rd mtn too (Thunder) but it was closed for refurb :(


A not very good shot on Splash Mtn.

Otherwise a pretty typical day at MK.  Pineapple whip, Pirates, Peter Pan and a good peek at the Fantasyland extension and top of the new Beauty and the Beast Castle.  Katie will need to go back when it's finished.

Next day was the Chemistry class at Epcot.  Got there very early and I stayed for the very beginning because of the tickets.  Once they went off with their teacher, I ran to get some fast passes and to ride all the slow old lady rides that I never get to go on.

They really enjoyed the class.  Zack has wanted to do another Kim Possible mission so we went over to World Showcase to do two of those.  Then, I think we went back to the hotel for a bit. 


Trying to figure out the next clue.






After hanging out with some friends.





Back that night for dinner with Mickey and friends.  We almost lost our ressie due to a very slow moving line at Test Track but we dashed through the park and made it.


Next day, Animal Kingdom

I was not as brave and Katie and I passed on Expedition Everest, but here's Zack "enjoying" himself!


We did  enjoy Dinosaur


Saw a rhino!


 We actually didn't go on too many rides at AK, but did catch the shows this time, which were surprisingly good.  Surprising because the shows at Hollywood Studios were so bad when we saw them.

AK closes early so we ran over to Hollywood to see if we could catch the new Star Wars ride.  We made it in time to go on and I think Zack went on the Twilight Zone ride while Katie and I went on Toy Story Mania.  Long wait but fun.

Last day at Disney but ended on a great note with Pete getting in town!

UNIVERSAL and the WWOHP

Up early and through the gates at opening.  We knew the shortest route to the Wiz World.  I had been advised that if the wait for Forbidden Journey was anything less than an hour, it was worth waiting.  We hit the jackpot day, we never waited more than 10 mins for any of the rides.

Got to the gates and it truly is magical.  The music is playing, the Hogwarts Express is there and the Castle is ahead and you do feel like you just walked into the movie.  Katie was on the moon and the rest of us were smiling too.



We headed for FJ first and since the wait was so small, did the ride line first.  It is an AMAZING ride.  I was so glad I was able to ride it. 


On to Ollivanders and our first try of butterbeer while waiting in line.  Got one frozen and one not.  I liked the plain a bit better but wasn't blown over by either.  Kids liked it though.   Against my hopes and expressed wishes, the kids bought wands right away.


Second round of butterbeer
 We also tried Pumpkin Juice which I thought was a gritty horror but everyone else liked a lot.  blech :-p

Spent the morning exploring WWOHP, then headed out before the crowds grew too unbearable.  Can't remember if we had dinner at the Three Broomsticks that night, but I think that might have been later in the trip.

The rest of the park is fine, but too many stores and no magic like in Disney or at WWOHP-which is really like a different park than the rest.

Katie getting her Greek on at Sinbad



Boris and Natasha have a secret meaning for us ;)

Ripsaw Falls-just K&Z


 Just did Islands of Adventure that first day.  Enjoyed the Bilge Rat Barges and the Spiderman ride and Pete and Zack went on the Hulk and liked it but that was about it.  Went back to Harry to shop a bit more before leaving for the night.

That night, Zack's first swish and flick of his wand, snapped it in two and Katie decided she wanted a different wand (hmm, if only they had waited a bit longer before making their purchases....).

Next day we went to Universal Studios and Pete and I both enjoyed the theming better.  The streets were wider and we both enjoyed the movie themes, a lot of which we knew.

I went directly to the gift shop to return the broken and unwanted wands and they were terrific about it and gave me no trouble with the returns.




A highlight was when Pete got picked to play a role in the Disaster show!  Sadly, they don't let you take video, but we have the one shot of him above.


In keeping with my bravery theme of the trip, I actually rode the Mummy roller coaster ride.  It goes backwards very fast so Katie and I were unsure of it, but Pete and Zack tested it out for us and we had a blast!

Pete and Zack did Hollywood Rip Ride Rocket, and we all rode the Simpsons Ride and ET (yawn).  Pete decided to skip Men in Black, which was a very dizzy ride.

The Terminator show was terrible--as we found with ALL of the shows at Universal.  I can't imagine why people talk about the shows there when they were beyond corny.  They were dated, dusty, hokey and cheap looking.  Waste of time.  

The food was overall unremarkable.

A tired crew at the end of the day.

The next day we hung around the hotel and then let Pete rest while Katie and I went shopping and Zack went to Disney Quest.

Next morning Pete flew off for his west coast tour with The Jet Age.

We went back to the parks and to do the Jurassic Park section of IOA.  I wasn't feeling so great (bad reaction to the anti vertigo patch I'd used the previous two days) so I didn't do rides and took it easy.  Katie and Zack did go on the Jurassic Park ride and loved that.  We all enjoyed the discovery center they have there too.  I also took a nice slow walk through the tour-only line of FJ while the kids rode the ride again.

I know we ate at the three broomsticks on this day and I tried pear cider, which was wonderful.  We saw the Sinbad show, which was atrocious.

We crossed over to the Studios to see the cute, but still not as good as the Disney bird show, animal show and to do the Simpsons ride again and even I rode the Mummy a second time.

That evening, back over to WWOHP for new wands, pumpkin juices, chocolate frogs and cauldron cakes for ourselves and friends back home.

It was a nice note to end the Universal section of the trip on.

Back to NC and grandma's house.  Good to see Toby, who was happy to be spoiled while we were away.  Since Pete was going to be away all week, we took the opportunity to have a nice visit with grandma.

Even during the mild winter, it was nice to get away to shorts weather and I am hooked on warm weather trips in winter now.

Next, I'll do a brief recap of the first half of the year and show some photos of our more recent NC and NYC trips.